If one is searching church
documents for evidence of a church’s prior knowledge of sexually abusing
priests he will rarely find the words
pedophile, abuser, sex,
or any other direct reference to actual behavior.
Even in correspondence with medical providers code words and euphemisms
are used. All of the euphemistic terms or phrases used to describe a
priest who is sexually abusing minors listed below were found in
medical, church, or criminal records.
The longstanding knowledge of sexual abuse by priests
among the hierarchy becomes decipherable as more and more church
documents come to light and are examined. A Cardinal recently (2006)
admitted what we have known for a long time, that "codes" are used
between bishops to indicate a priest is having problems with sex. This
cardinal’s particular code when he sent a sex-abusing priest to the
jurisdiction of another Catholic Cardinal was—he is coming for
"health and family reasons."
He not only admitted that it
was a code that any bishop or cardinal would understand, but also tried
to defend his position in sending the priest who was soon arrested for
sexual assault on minors in his new placement because he thought the
priest was "only homosexual."1
Codes and Euphemisms in Psychiatry
The church has not been alone in handling sex abuse
by Catholic bishops and priests as a hot potato and behavior that had to
be disguised with alternative names to identify and record it at the
same time to hide it. I know from my years in association and
observation of the psychiatric community and reviewing many medical
histories of priests that pedophilia (under its current and appropriate
definition) was noted, but classified and treated under various
monikers. Sexual activity by priests was concealed and codified
especially in Catholic institutions. In my years of training and on the
staff of a hospital that
1
Cardinal Norberto Rivera Carrera to Cardinal Roger Mahony
1
treated numerous priests, a noteworthy number who
were in actuality pedophiles not one was given that designation as a
primary diagnosis. (It is of public record that minor abusing priests
Fr. John Goehgan and Fr. David Holley and dozens of others were treated
at the hospital where I worked.) Priests’ sexual activity was noted and
subsumed under some more acceptable psychiatric and, at the time,
available diagnosis.
This distortion was not entirely the fault of the
treating institutions. Rarely did bishops "play it straight with the
staff." Even in referring an offending priest for treatment many bishops
concealed or twisted the facts to make the priest (diocese) look as good
as possible. On discharge, many bishops and superiors often disregarded
or twisted the recommendations of the psychiatric staff to suit their
own judgment and needs.
Also, some Catholic treating institutions were
compromised. They destroyed medical documents that witnessed criminal
behavior and told bishops to do the same2 or in line with the
recommendation of Bishop John Quinn, sent documents to the office of the
Apostolic Delegate in Washington, DC to seal them under diplomatic
immunity.3After 1985 at least one archdiocese hired a man specifically
to "cleanse the files."4 Other dioceses made the same arrangements with
members of their staff.5
From the 1920s through the 1950s
SCHIZOPHRINIC
was a commonly used designation
for a priest who was involved in sex with children. Fr. Gerald
Fitzgerald wrote in 1957 to a bishop who wanted to send a pedophile
priest to Via Coeli, "From our long experience with characters of this
type…most of these men would be clinically classified as
schizophrenic."6 He was also convinced by that time that priests who got
involved sexually with children could not be cured.
Hospital records from 1982 give the diagnosis of
"paranoid schizophrenic" to a priest who had been treated twice before
for
2
Fr. Liam
Hoare to Thomas O’Brien, bishop of Phoenix, 2/23/89
3
Bishop John A. Quinn 1990 address to the Midwest Canon Law Society
4
Personal communication
5
Witnesses from NYC 1993 and San Diego 2006
6
Fr.
Fitzgerald to Brady 9/57
2
"depression." He admitted a history of abusing at
least five boys a year during the course of his ministry. The reason for
this categorization did have logic: the conscious decision of a priest
was to be celibate. He could not be a priest if he did not promise that.
Since he wanted to be a clergyman and his behavior was diametrically
opposed to this desire he had to have a "split-personality." His
behavior demonstrated primarily that he was "crazy" and schizophrenia
was an available diagnosis at that time. If his craziness could be
controlled then he would behave appropriately, but that diagnosis was
not seen as amenable to cure, just management.
Alcoholism
has long been known as a
problem among Catholic clergy. The lifetime incidence of alcoholism is
twice as high in Catholic clergy (20 percent) than recorded in the
general population. Hospital and treatment centers for priests
contemplated and established since the 1930s always named alcohol abuse
as one major motivation for founding these centers. Father Thomas Verner
Moore, M.D. had plans drawn up for a psychiatric hospital on the campus
of Catholic University with the treatment of alcoholic priests as one of
the major targets.7 "Sister Mary Ignatia Gavin pioneered the
concept of medical treatment for addiction when alcoholism was thought
to result from irreversible moral failure. Gavin founded the world’s
first alcohol addiction treatment center in 1939 at St. Thomas Hospital
in Akron, Ohio.8 The first treatment center designed exclusively for the
treatment of alcoholic priests was founded as Guest House, in Lake
Orion, MI in 1956. But alcohol problems of priests were a factor in the
founding in 1947 of St. John Vianney Hospital in Downingtown, PA—a
psychiatric hospital exclusively for clergy—Via Coeli in 1948 and St.
Luke Institute in 1981. But the awareness of the sexual problems hidden
behind alcohol moved Guest House in the 1990s to refuse sexually
addicted men entrance to their program, at the same time that the
awareness of the connection between substance abuse and sex addiction
motivated Via Coeli (1976) and later St. Luke’s (1985) to devise and
initiate specific treatment protocols for clergy-sex-addiction.
7
Benedict
Neenan,
Thomas
Verner Moore: Psychiatrist, Educator and Monk,
Paulist
Press, Mahwah, NJ: 2000.
8
National Catholic Reporter, February 23, 2007.
3
History of the psychiatric treatment of priests with
sexual problems, including abuse of minors clearly demonstrates that
ALCOHOLIC
was the name given to these
men—partly because they were drinking too much and causing—as said in
church circles,
admiratio populi—scandal.
But in truth, scores of the priests and bishops in this group were
acting out sexually with children or adolescents. Drinking was a more
benign diagnosis—less damaging to the reputation of the clergy and the
church than any direct recognition of sexual involvement. It was not
politically tolerable to use the word
pervert.
The logic behind this psychiatric decision rested in
the belief "if you could keep father sober, he would not act in these
sinful
ways." Some how the idea that a
person was drunk at the time of a sexual encounter rendered the sexual
element more understandable and less culpable.
The psychiatric designation
DEPRESSION is well
known and common in US culture. Mental health research has estimated
that 7.9 to 8.6 percent of adults will experience a major depression
during their lifetime. 9 During my years in training and on the
staff of a Catholic hospital 10 it was common to have a priest patient
who had sexually abused minors to be diagnosed as suffering from
depression. And indeed, most suffered from depressive symptoms. They had
been caught. Either the police or some church authority noted the sexual
behavior and had to do something about the impending scandal or danger
of incarceration. The displacement, uncertainty about the future, the
fear of a mental hospital setting, embracement and loss of self-esteem,
conspired to make the priest or bishop feel depressed.
But in many cases the diagnosis was rendered as a
cover, diminishment, or disregard of the major psychiatric
element—inability to control sexual behavior toward children and
adolescents. It sounded much better to say that father was in the
hospital for depression (or exhaustion, another euphemism) than to admit
he was caught abusing children or call him a pervert.
The logic of diagnosing depression is similar to that
of calling a sex-abusing priest an alcoholic—
If
we can help father feel better, enhance his self-esteem, and control his
dark moods he won’t do these bad things.
The excuse of alcohol has been
used notable and almost laughably when public figures have been caught
in embarrassing sexual misbehavior. "I was drinking," they say. For
example Congressman Michael Foley of Florida resigned his post in 2006
because of sexual advances he made to young Congressional Pages. In the
aftermath he was "depressed," entered treatment for alcohol addiction
and then announced another factor often seen as superior to being
identified as an abuser of minors—"I’m homosexual." This triad of drink,
depression, and gay identity is often juggled around to find the most
acceptable—or least damaging—public explanation of criminal behavior.
Sometimes the sexual element in behavior was too
obvious or public to deny on admission to a psychiatric hospital. Even
then the fact that a child had been abused by a priest had to be
softened and covered as much as possible. The offending priest was
treated for a psychiatric disorder (until 1973 when it was dropped from
the DSM): he was called a
HOMOSEXUAL.
In 1968 this psychiatric cover was somewhat
understandable. The texts recorded,
"Pedophilia, or a
pathological sexual interest in children is regarded as a variant of
homosexuality in which the homosexual strivings are directed toward
children." The
perpetrator was considered weak and impotent, his actions reincarnations
of his wishes for his mother’s love, and because of insecurity and
self-doubt he functioned on an immature psychosexual level.11
This confusion of pedophilia (ephebophilia) and
homosexuality is long-standing and detrimental to the understanding and
treatment of men who are genuinely addicted to sex with minors.
The Law and the Church
11
Lawrence C.
Kolb, M.D.,
Noyes’
Modern Clinical Psychiatry,
Seventh Edition. W.B. Saunders Company, Philadelphia: 1968.
5
Prosecution and incarceration have not been the usual
path for priests and bishops who have been found to abuse minors or been
discovered in other sexually compromising circumstances:
•
In 1967 a
Monsignor was arrested consequent to picking up a 15 year-old
hitchhiker, driving him to his (the cleric’s) parent’s home,
forcing alcohol on him, and attempting to rape him. The boy
escaped from the house (breaking some furniture in the process)
and screaming, roused a neighbor. When the police came at 1:30
A.M. they found the boy confused and distraught lying on the
floor of the neighbor’s home. The police traced the priest’s
identity through his parent’s home.
What happened?
The Police handled it: "by filing a secret
information with the Court."
The Police determined: "more harm than good could be
done by prosecution."
The Sheriff directed:
"present the information to Bishop Green and let him handle the matter,
as has been done in the past."
The Police discounted the idea that the Msgr. might
be an "active or latent-homosexual" but that he could be "
UNDER
SEVERE STRAIN
combined with APPARENT INTOIXCATION."
(Emphasis mine)
Church response?
Monsignor was sent to a Catholic General hospital for
a 30-day check-up and the announcement was made that he was recuperating
from
EXHAUSTION
from
OVER WORK.
As a parochial dean in 1983 he destroyed written
complaints about child abuse by another priest.
He was promoted and continued in ministry until 2000.
•
In 1987 a bishop
was arrested for sexual solicitation at a truck stop in
Massachusetts. The arresting officer, a devout Catholic, did not
discover that the man was a bishop from another state until
after he had written the citation. He and his superior were
concerned about the possible adverse consequences. The officer
of the State Police in charge called the Catholic Chaplin and
had him drive the bishop home in the neighboring state. The
priest chaplain made a note of the incident. The arresting
officer was troubled by his part in the incident and feared
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scandal. He consulted a well-placed cleric
who assured him that he had not betrayed the church by doing his
duty
.
He also made a
note of the incident.
The outcome?
All police records were destroyed by some unknown
agent.
This event among others involving minor boys was kept
SECRET
by the church and the law.
Although allegations of this bishop abusing orphans
while he was a seminarian are on record, they never have been made
public.
Priests and bishops have been sent for
treatment
to Catholic hospitals under
court order. The arrangement, informal or formal, was an agreement that
the understanding judge would not press, or would suspend, charges if
the cleric would submit to psychiatric treatment. Senior members of the
staff of Seton testified that the practice was long-standing there.
No statement can be clearer about the cozy
cooperation between the law and religion-related psychiatric centers
than that of Dr. Frank Valcour, the medical director of St. Luke’s
Institute when he wrote on December 10, 1992
—"Because
sexual behavior disorders often involve felonious acts many of our
patients have been adjudicated. Some have been on probationary status
others have been in treatment in lieu of jail time. Still others have
been sent to treatment with us as part of a plea-bargain."
Father Gerald Fitzgerald reminded a bishop who sent a
priest for abusing minors in 1953, that priests were spared criminal
prosecution
only
because they were
clerics.12
The Church Speaks In Latin
It may surprise some people to know that even in the
early 1960s the moral theology books used in seminaries could be in
English save for the chapters on the sixth and ninth commandments. They
were
12
Fitzgerald
letter to Bishop--/ also 1963 letter to Vincent Hines bishop of Norwich,
CT
7
written in Latin—entitled
De Sexto—as
if it would take a classical language scholar to know what those
mysterious chapters were all about. It is but one more indication of the
degree of secrecy accorded anything that had to do with sex—the
forbidden, except to the
Initiate.
Coitus was carefully defined—in Latin—so that priests
would know the importance of a valid marriage—
ratum
et conusmatum: that
is the couple had to take vows before a priest and they had to have
complete intercourse.
When I was ordained in 1959, priests in parishes were
given a pamphlet that was to be reviewed with an engaged couple ONLY the
night before the wedding ceremony. The absurdity of giving marital
instructions at the last minute lest the couple be tempted to sin is
only secondary to presuming the competence of the instructor.
Stuprum
is a classic term used for
centuries to indicate sodomy. Although it has a long history and was
used to designate that activity with men or women it is most frequently
used in church documents to indicated sex of a priest with a minor,
usually a boy.13
In chancery documents from 1959 I found the phrase
De re turpi cum infantibus
to describe a priest in
trouble. That is a pretty clear admission of the fact of child abuse, of
course, meant only for clerical eyes.14
Crimen
or
Delict
(literally church terms
for crime) are other terms frequently found in church documents to cover
a multitude of sins without having to be explict. They are a bit more
vague because they are not exclusively reserved for sexual offences
against children. They can, among other things, indicate abuse against
adult men or women.
Delictus contra naturam cum eodem sexu
is a phrase I found in records
of Via Coeli to a bishop as late as 1963. Literally it could mean
homosexual activity, but it is in the record of a notorious sexual
13
:
Lansing, Carol,
Gender and civic authority: sexual control in a medieval Italian town.
Journal of Social History: 9/22/1997.
14
———————————————
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abuser of boys. In 1964 the treatment center simplified
the term to
Code 3.15
In a report about a candidate whose name had been
submitted for consideration for ordination to the episcopacy the
objection was that he had
Mulier
(women) problems.
Bishops and Catholic Treatment Centers
The same physician we quoted above, Frank Valcour,
the medical director of St. Luke Institute, wrote on November 4, 1992,
"Our
strength is in the treatment of addictive disorders including sexual
disorders. Over the past seven years we have evaluated and or treated
over 300 individuals with serious sexual behavior problems including
child molestation."
Bishops consistently used the vaguest terms and the
most developed code words when they communicated with each other and
treatment facilities about a priest who was causing some concern over
his sexual behavior. Often reference to sex with minors was simply
stated as "father is having a
PROBLEM."
Bishops knew what
that meant. In addition to that the bishops frequently dissimulated when
they referred a priest to a treating psychiatrist by posing the
presenting problem as "father is depressed" or "father is drinking too
much."
From the very beginning of founding the Servants of
the Paraclete Fr. Fitzgerald was faced with requests to admit priests
who had some sort of sexual behavior as the presenting concern. Already
in 1948 Fr. Fitzgerald said that his house (Via Coeli) was packed with
alcoholic priests and declined to accept a priest who implied a
‘problem’ with children. His stated policy was to "refuse problem cases
that involved abnormalities in sex." He writes with sympathy to the
priest " who has fallen under the spell of
ABNORMAL RELATIONS."16
15
Via Coeli
documents re: Fr. Bissonette, 1963-1964
16
G.F Letter to a pastor September 27, 1948
9
In 1957 Bishop Buddy of San Diego sent a priest to
Via Coeli who had abused several minor girls with the description that
he had made some
MISTAKES
that were so well known
he would be ineffective in his diocese. He went on to say that if the
priest learned "discretion" he could be very useful to another bishop.17
INDISCRETE
is another code word that often
hides sex abuse.
By 1957 Fitzgerald was experienced enough with the
dynamic of child abuse that he could speak more directly about it and
favored that priests who even "attempted to seduce little boys or girls"
should be automatically and involuntarily laicized. He called child
–abusing-priests "
DEVILS"
and " this class of RATTLESNAKE."
He wanted them isolated on an island preserve, "too good for these
vipers." He appealed to scripture, "it would be better they had not been
born."18 Even at this time was seeking an island in the Caribbean where
priest sex offenders of minors could be isolated.
Some bishops could write to Fitzgerald with somewhat
more candor by 1957, for instance the referral of Fr. John T. Sullivan
from New Hampshire that listed the cause as:
"SCANDAL
CAUSING ESCAPADES WITH YOUNG GIRLS."
The fact that young women were
involved made greater candor possible.19
By 1963 Fitzgerald had expanded his centers from
Jemez Springs, NM, to Albuquerque, to Cheery Valley, CA, St. Louis, MO,
Nevis, MN, a seminary in Vermont, a treatment center in Scotland, and a
Generalate in Rome. He was asked to make a report to the Pope. By then
Fitzgerald estimated that fully one third of all the priests sent to his
centers were there because of problems with minors, 20 percent were
there because of
AFFAIRS OF THE
HEART, (sexual
involvement with women) and only 50 percent for alcoholism.
17
Buddy to G.F.
re: Fr. Franz Rubio 1957
18
G.F Letter to Archbishop Edwin V. Byrne, September 18, 1957
19
Bishop Matthew Brady, Manchester NH 1957 to Gerald Fitzgerald re: Fr.
John T. Sullivan who subsequently applied to 17 dioceses for work. He
was accepted into another diocese and re-offended. It is interesting to
note the dioceses he chose to apply for because they were the ones that
had a reputation of receiving problem priests.
10
In spite of Fitzgerald’s opposition to accepting sex
abusers as
GUESTS in his
facilities (priests were not called patients or clients) the demand from
bishops was clear and persistent. The cover of alcoholism was
evaporating to expose underlying sexual dynamics.
What amounted to a palace revolt that unseated
Fitzgerald from control of the organization coincided with the departure
of Archbishop Byrne who had been considered the co-founder of the
Paracletes and the appointment of James P. Davis in 1964 to head the
Santa Fe archdiocese.
Fitzgerald’s hopes to send priests who abused minors
to the Caribbean island he had purchased for that purpose were dashed
when the new archbishop took matters to Rome. The Servants were ordered
to sell the island.
Also, Fitzgerald’s ideal of a spiritual cure was also
curtailed when he was "forced" to use AA as part of a treatment
modality. Psychiatry was low on his list of interventions, but as the
requests for treatment increased he capitulated to staff demands for
help. In addition, some bishops and superiors sent priests to the
Servants on a psychiatric recommendation.
This shift in the fundamental thinking about the
treatment of problem priests did not come easily. Cardinal Antoniutti,
secretary of the Congregation for Religious, wrote in 1966 what was
considered a mandate "to implement lay programs and place greater
reliance on lay psychologists and psychiatrists."19
In 1966 the Paracletes hired a lay psychologist, Dr.
John Salazar, to head up their program. This was a response to the
cardinal’s instruction to institute "methods of rehabilitation of the
guests…striving to effect a wise selection of those mental and physical
means which help the workings of grace."20
In the early 1970s in the persons of Frs. Michael
Foley and William Perri the Servants trained-for, developed, and
instituted a special
19
Affidavit of
Fr. Joseph Mc Namara, 17 November 1993.
20
Cardinal Antoniutti to Fr. temple, 23 March 1966.
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modality to diagnose and treat sexually offending
priests particularly those who were involved with minors.
TROUBLESOME INVOLVMENTS
is a label that indicates
sexual activity, but usually with adult women or men. A priest
considered a sexual addict, had sexual activity with many women over a
forty-year period including several long-term relationships (at least 7
women recorded, one as young as 17) fathered 4 children, visited
prostitutes, etc. After several reports to his superiors of his activity
that was common knowledge, his provincial told him to see a
psychiatrist. The superior did not mention women or sex, only concern
over " your
FREQUENT AND
LONGLASTING INVOLVEMENTS."
The priest was given a new
assignment where he was not known, but the pattern of his behavior
continued for another twenty years.
Being
OVER FAMILIAR
with as vague a group as
"lay people" can be found in bishops’ correspondence or it can be more
specific such as, "with boys working at the parish." It means sexual
abuse.
"Father is in an
UNCOMFORTABLE
SITUATION" or caught
up in
UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR PATTERNS,
or was
IMPRUDENT,
or has been involved
in some UNFORTUNATE INCIDENTS"
are all code words that
indicated sexual misbehavior especially with minors in communication
from bishops and superiors referring priests to treatment facilities.
As programs for sexual treatment like those of the
Paracletes, St. Luke’s, Institute of Living, the University of
Minnesota, etc. proliferated, the bishops echoed more psychologically
sophisticated terms when they sent priests for treatment. These included
the codes such as
BOUNDRY
VIOLATIONS, IMMATURE, ADJUSTMENT PROBLEM
or on occasion rather directly
INAPPROPRIATE ASSOCIATON WITH A MINOR.
These terms went back and forth between treatment
facilities and bishops even as the psychiatric treatment centers became
more precise in recording the terms
PEDIOPHILIA
and
EPHEBOPHILIA.
Evaluations and diagnoses often times reflect a gentler and less
specific term—SEXUAL
DISORDER NOS (not
otherwise specified)—
12
that can cover concern over sexual identity,
function, relationships, etc.
Bishops and Public Exposure
The media coverage of high profile abuse cases has
made the reporting of clergy behavior clearer and more direct: it is not
uncommon to read that the priest
ABUSED
a child or adolescent.
The press frequently used the word pedophilia; sometimes imprecisely
when it designates sex with an adolescent.
TOUCHING
as well as abuse are
terms often used to designate behavior that more accurately could be
named rape.
It is in the legal system that the most precise
description of the actual behavior of the priest is recorded. The courts
seal many of these records and conceal the full horrors of them from the
public. For instance, "touch" was the public code used when a priest
used his semen to anoint the forehead of his 13-year-old boy victim. It
was also the public report of the priest who used, what he said, was a
consecrated host to touch the vagina of his child victim, telling her
that this gesture was to confirm the sanctity of his sexual activity
with her.
The sordid and painful experiences of victims of
abuse are probably most directly related within the confines of
therapeutic treatment. Also the adversarial deposition and trial for the
victim in the process of suing the priest abuser and the church demands
a level of clarity and precision not otherwise needed.
Public outrage has forced many bishops to make an
APOLOGY
FOR THE SUFFERING OF THE VICTIM.
Rarely does it have the ring of a personal confession or regret.
Frequently a victim reporting his or her experience is met with the
question of
MISUNDERSTANDING
the priest’s movement or intentions.
On record a few strong priests have taken the pulpit
to say, "I am an alcoholic and I am going for treatment." Most often,
official pronouncements of a priest’s or bishop’s absence for treatment
declare that the person is
EXHAUSTED
or under sever strain.
13 14
As recently as 2003 (and 1994) two bishops announced
that a priest was leaving the parish for reasons of a
HEALTH AND REST
or
SABBATICAL.
Both were sexual
offenders.
Some priests and bishops who have been described as
OVER
WORKED or
RETIRED FOR
MEDICAL REASONS were
in fact being treated for their sexual activity. Of course, the fact
that some priests and bishops leave their posts because they are
genuinely ill, overworked, and need to retire causes confusion and
injustice.
TICKLING, HORSE PLAY
or
WRESTLING
are words used to cover
up sexual grooming or frank sexual activity and abuse. The most extreme
example I know of occurred in the conduct of a young assistant pastor
who established a sexual bond with a boy when he was 15 and 16. One of
"games" the priest played with the boy while both were naked involved
tying him to the bed and then sodomizing him. On one occasion the boy
freed one of his legs and began flailing around. In the process he hit
the wall hard enough to put a hole in it. The pastor responded to the
ruckus, came into the room, and said, "You’re going to have to pay for
the repair of that damage. Later when the abuse was litigated the pastor
said he thought they were just horsing around.
A victim of Fr. James Porter tells a similar story
about his abuse when he was in grade school. A priest of the parish
walked in while Porter was sodomizing him. He simply looked and closed
the door. When the boy was grown and more than one hundred of Porter’s
victims came forward, he confronted the priest who witnessed the abuse.
That man, now a monsignor gave a harrowing retort, "Priests are human
too." He could fool himself for time that they were just wrestling.
These words—tickling, horsing around, wrestling— that
intimate playfulness and innocence have been used repeatedly by abusers
and their lawyers to deny, minimize, and disarm the actual behavior even
if they see it with their own eyes. Words that sanitize abuse do nothing
to help heal the profound effects of abuse of minors.