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VATICAN SNOOPS IN
THE WRONG CLOSET
September 25, 2005
The Vatican is
going to repeat an investigation of Catholic Seminaries that they
conducted 25 years ago, but with a new focus and motivation. I knew
some of the investigators on that first round. Much of that
investigation ended up as window dressing to reassure the seminary
system that they were doing a bang-up job. And that is the kind of
report they got. There were little changes: reaffirmation that women
and former priests should not be teaching theological students. That
directive had some effect, but there have been silent holdouts in
many of the better seminaries.
The Vatican this
round—in an inquiry that supposedly aims to shore up the practice of
celibacy—is looking in the wrong places and taking the wrong focus.
The investigators
are going to look at priesthood candidates and their trainers to see
if celibacy is adequately taught and observed. That is valid. And
the answers are clear. Celibacy is neither taught adequately nor
practiced well by students or teachers in Catholic seminaries. (I
will not make many friends in high places by saying so, but there is
plenty of evidence of sexual activity among the students and
faculties of Catholic training centers.)
But the examination
of sexual activity and non-celibate observance needs to start at the
top—in the Vatican and in chancery offices, with bishops, cardinals,
and their assistants.
If Vatican
officials and American Bishops (and certainly any person who plans
to conduct an examination of sex in American seminaries) filled out
a self-survey questionnaire it would give everyone a body of data to
know just what we are looking for in candidates for the priesthood.
But, as I said,
seminaries are the wrong place to start looking for celibate data.
Secondly, the focus
of the Vatican investigation for understanding celibacy is
completely wrong. The Vatican is trying to sniff out, not only
homosexual behavior, but also homosexual orientation.
Good luck. In many
ways that search is a no-brainer.
It is only recently
that modern psychology has teased out the concept of sexual
orientation. Previously, religion and science based their
observations on acts-behavior. Orientation is a far more subtle
differentiation than any act.
Catholic clergy of
every rank have always included a larger proportion of homosexually
oriented men than exist in the general population. Father Donald
Cozzens along with many other knowledgeable churchmen put the
current proportion of homosexually oriented priests as upward of 50
percent.
History clearly
includes homosexual saints, popes, cardinals, bishops, and priests—a
host of productive faithful servants. And thus it is today.
Many of the
homosexually oriented bishops and priests are doing good work and
practicing celibacy. I put the emphasis on practicing—not
pretending—and not just enjoying clerical benefits while they are
sexually active in some way or other.
I have estimated a
smaller number of homosexually oriented priests (30-40 percent) than
other researchers have because I have had long term contacts that
can allow one to distinguish behaviors from orientation.
There are priests
who are homosexually active both in and outside the confines of
seminaries. But the social circumstances of clerical living and
relationships have to be accounted for. Sometimes there are
heterosexually oriented men who behave in homosexual ways and
visa-versa. For instance, there are sayings from military life that
give us clues about the distinction between sexual feelings,
behavior and orientation. One is: “If the ship is underway it’s not
gay.” And another: “What happens on the ship stays on the ship.”
Sexual feelings do not cease in circumstances where a man’s outlets
for his sexual preference are curtailed.
The Vatican, in the
person of Bishop Edwin O’Brien, has suggested that any man who has
had a same sex experience or is homosexually oriented should be
barred from the priesthood. Supposedly the logic being that this
will eliminate any homosexual behavior.
Good luck. That is
equivalent to saying that the government will eliminate sex in
prisons if heterosexual men are isolated from any gay prisoner. The
Nazis organized their SS under that assumption and it proved to
produce precisely the opposite result.
I am among the
first and the most enthusiastic supporter of any effort the Church
could make to understand, teach, and practice celibacy. I have spent
my life trying to understand the phenomenon in all of its
complexity. But the Vatican is off base and plain wrong about the
structure and motivation for its investigation.
The American church
under extreme pressure from the media, courts, and victims of clergy
sexual abuse commissioned a study that resulted in some hard data
about priests’ and bishops’ behavior. Three to six percent of
Catholic priests can be counted on to have sex with minors.
Because 80 percent
of the abuse victims are boys the men in power said, “Ah, ah. We now
know that the cause of the sexual problem in the church is the gays,
the homosexuals, the queers, who have snuck into our ranks
uninvited, surreptitiously and for the first time in the last 50
years.”
As I stated
earlier, there has always been a larger proportion of gay oriented
men in the priesthood than in the general population. But—and this
is a vital but—there is no connection between homosexual orientation
and choosing a child as a sex object. There in not one scientific
study that contradicts that statement.
Think clearly about
it. When a 35-year-old man abuses a 13-year-old girl we don’t hit
our forehead and say, “there goes one of those heterosexuals again!”
We can make a clear distinction between sexual orientation and
object of sexual desire. Gay men are not more geared toward sex with
children than straight men are. That pedophilia is a problem across
the board of sexually active men does not absolve the church from
its specific problems with its clergy.
The church does
have to account for the large proportion of immature, psychosexually
underdeveloped priests that have shown up on the radar screen of
every serious study of Catholic clergy. (Cf. Kennedy-Heckler, 1972)
The myopic design,
focus, motivation, and purpose of searching for homosexual men in
seminaries is doomed to produce a distorted picture, no matter how
it comes out. It only raises the unanswered questions about
celibacy.
Who is really
practicing perfect and perpetual chastity? Will each of the bishops
and priests investigating the seminaries be certified as
heterosexually oriented and long-standing practitioners of perfect
celibacy?
Concern for the
sexual welfare of priests and people is a worthy goal. The Vatican
needs to proceed in a more intelligent and reasonable way than is
demonstrated in the currently biased and unbalanced proposed
investigation.
It is difficult for
anyone to talk about sex. Sex is a tricky area of human adjustment
and behavior to examine. Those who are going to conduct the
investigation into the sexual reality of seminaries need first of
all to be honest with themselves.
I have devised a
hundred question inventory for Vatican appointed priests who are
going to study the celibate-sexual practice of clergy. These are
some of the same questions that Vatican officials and bishops should
have to answer first:
(Numbers 1 to 25
are deleted from this version.)
26. Do you or have you ever masturbated?
27. Have you ever looked at pornography?
28. Have you ever had any sexual contact with an animal?
29. Have you ever had any sexual contact with another person?
30. Have you ever had sexual contact with an adult woman?
31. Have you ever had any sexual contact with an adult male?
32. Have you ever had sexual contact with an adolescent girl?
33. Have you ever had sexual contact with an adolescent boy?
34. Have you ever had sexual contact with a child who was five
years younger than you?
35. What was the gender of that child?
36. How old were you at the time of the contact?
37. What thoughts or images sexually excite you?
38. When was your most recent orgasm, from any source?
39. What images accompanied your most recent orgasm?
40. What are the usual circumstances of your orgasms?
41. What has been the longest period during which you practiced
perfect celibacy?
(Numbers 42 to 55
are deleted from this version.)
56. What do you consider your sexual orientation?
____Heterosexual
____Homosexual
____Bisexual
____Unknown
(Numbers 57 to 100 are deleted from this
version.)
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